To protect a single file:
UrlToolkit {
  ToolkitID = block_hotlink
  Match !/script/my_flash Return
  Header Referer !www.mydomain.com DenyAccess
}
VirtualHost {
  ...
  UseToolkit = block_hotlink
}
To protect multiple files:
UrlToolkit {
  ToolkitID = check_referer
  Header Referer !www.mydomain.com DenyAccess
}
UrlToolkit {
  ToolkitID = block_hotlink
  Match /script/my_flash Call check_referer
  Match /img/image.jpg Call check_referer
  Match /js/script.js Call check_referer
  ...
}
VirtualHost {
  ...
  UseToolkit = block_hotlink
}